You have done everything right.
You went to the doctor. Multiple times. You described your symptoms carefully. You submitted to the tests: blood panels, stool tests, colonoscopies, food elimination diets. You kept the food diary. You cut out gluten, then dairy, then FODMAPs.
And at the end of all of it, you either got a vague IBS diagnosis with no real treatment plan, or you were told everything looks normal and you should manage your stress.
Meanwhile you are still bloated, still uncomfortable, still exhausted, still not yourself.
Here is what none of those doctors asked you: How long have you been on hormonal birth control?
Because the connection between oral contraceptives and gut disruption is one of the most documented and least discussed relationships in women's health. And it may be the answer you have been looking for through every test, every elimination diet, and every dismissive medical appointment.